Oh no! I bought a fake item on eBay!

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Can evidence be any plainer than this? This photo sums up pretty well the whole situation. Fake, counterfeit, fraud - its as simple as that.

What on earth can eBay do about unscrupulous sellers who peddle fake goods?  Not much, it seems. Well, now its my turn to get duped.  Seeing a slip billed by eBay seller specialju38 as a ‘Kayser Bondor’ and at a fair price for the brand, I went for it and won.
I should have known better.  Our seller used up her full quota of photos in the item description, but I missed the fact there wasn’t one of the label.   If there had have been, there is no way I would have touched it with a bargepole and I would have immediately reported it to eBay as an obvious fake.  Sadly, it wasn’t until I received the slip in the post that the scam came to light.

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The bit that really rankles is that the seller takes her buyer as a fool. This is such an amateurish attempt at a fake it beggars belief.  Crude stitching the likes of which I haven’t seen since my own attempts at needlework at primary school – plus the fact our erstwhile scammer couldn’t even be bothered to sew it on straight to the seam.  It has even been sewn in the wrong place – clearly a collar label, it has been stitched halfway down a side seam.  You’ve got to see this sham to believe it, as photos on a blog can only describe the situation to a degree.

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Somebody needs to make a stand against these shoddy practices and right now I am so angry that the longer it takes me to get a full refund, the louder I’m going to shout.  As an established seller of vintage lingerie myself, I thank God I am honest enough to never even consider hurting my customers in this way and if I never get a refund off specialju38, the £8.99 I sent her for this sham will be worth every penny to expose this disgusting and illegal practice. Nobody should have to fight to get their money back after this kind of thing happens.

OK, now lets give specialju38 the benefit of the doubt and lets assume she has merely ‘moved on’ a fake slip she didn’t actually ‘make’ herself.  Well, firstly, I would be truly staggered that such a crude fake would escape even the most fleeting and rudimentary inspection.  I wouldn’t have listed it, thats for sure.  Secondly, if this were so and the seller innocently ‘shifted’ said dodgy slip, then a full refund should be instantaneous and without reservation.  I think competent online sellers call it protecting one’s reputation. Instead, I had to open an eBay dispute case against the seller as I now have absolutely no confidence that I’ll ever get my money back.

If you think I am being a tad harsh in my interpretation of a fake and you can clearly see that is how all Kayser Bondor labels were stitched on by their skilled machinists, then please comment on this article and put me firmly in my place. On the other hand, after viewing the photos you came to the same conclusion as I did, I’d appreciate a comment to that effect too. Thank you.

FOOTNOTE:  its obvious from the personal abuse I have received from specialju38 that I seem to have had a brush with the ‘murkier’ side of eBay. This character doesn’t represent the values that I stand for, nor the way I conduct business with buyers. So, even though I am the victim of a fraud, I closed the case and in doing so I will let her keep the £8.99 she took from me.  Not because I’m weak. Not because I caved-in, but because I have a different set of morals to people like her and I have come to the conclusion that the once vibrant marketplace that was eBay is now rotten to the core.  Sorry, but what may seem to you now as some kind of victory will gnaw away at your conscience if you have one, or not if you haven’t. Congratulate yourself on a job well done – you successfully duped someone into buying your fake Kayser Bondor slip!

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Elegant 1960’s rustling wiggle slip…

New on Bobadilla Vintage’s Etsy store, this 60’s navy wiggle slip…..
See http://www.etsy.com/listing/61785148/elegant-1960s-vintage-rustling-lace for more.

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Newly listed on Etsy…

Just added to Bobadilla Vintage Etsy store, this 70’s double layered nightdress in coffee and cream.  Mmmm… http://www.etsy.com/listing/61500377/elegant-1970s-vintage-double-layered

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New on Bobadilla Vintage Etsy:

I bet you think this is straight out of Little House on the Praire, but its deceptively deceptive….see http://www.etsy.com/listing/61496730/cute-1970s-vintage-double-layered-blue

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Twitter. You just can’t win.

I’ve been on Twitter for a while now, as @bobadillavtg.  For ages I was happy enough to just jog along following about 30 other Tweeters that interest me in some way or other.  In return for that, I was followed by less than ten individuals in my little virtual ‘fan club’.  As vintage sellers we all had something in common and in a non-voyeuristic way I was interested in what they were up to – even if it was completely mundane.  They ‘knew’ me and I ‘knew’ them.

Sitting in a north London Iranian restaurant with a cousin of mine – a seasoned veteran Tweeter with a following that resembles his phone number – I posed the question about how the heck he achieved such a big fan base.  “Follow everybody in sight and they’ll follow you back. Well, most of ’em”, he said.  It takes a lot to make me put down my faludeh, but I did.  “What? You mean its THAT easy?”….

So, once back in front of a computer I logged on to Twitter and began to follow every seller of vintage fashion I could find.  Click, click, click, they joined my ‘following’ list one after another and at a phenomenal rate too.  In virtually no time I had bagged no less than 233 Tweeters connected in some way with the fashion biz, most of them online vintage sellers.

Silly boy. Silly, silly boy.

Now, I can hardly find those people I am interested in for all the endless crap that drops into my virtual in-tray every couple of seconds.  It takes me ages to find them anymore and so I give up looking. 

Tweeting like that is a pointless quid pro quo – “you follow me and I’ll follow you back”.  The uncomfortable truth for Tweeters is that I’m not really interested in them and I am non-delusional enough to realise that they’re not interested in me either. Not really.

Where did my erstwhile cousin’s advice get me? 106 followers and rising, the vast majority of whom I don’t even know who they are.  Nice people, I’m sure, but aren’t 9 out of 10 on the street?

It wouldn’t be so bad if Twitter had some kind of ‘Most Favoured Follower” status I could assign to my original cyber-chums that I could use to seperate them from the hoi poloi, but there ain’t. Shame.

I’ve come to the conclusion that I want to go back to more or less where I was before and a mass cull is pretty imminent.  If those unknowns who follow me stay, fine. If they leave, just as fine. 

There is nothing sad, anti-social or un-cool about having a handful of followers.  In fact, its really cool, because I actually know who they are.

Footnote: Its a full 24 hours since I reduced my following list from 230+ to just 19.   My list of followers, however, has come down by just 2!   That doesn’t mean they love me, worship me, or hang on my every word. Nope. It just means that they follow so many people that they haven’t realised I’ve gone yet.

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Floaty sixties number in pink…

Just listed on Etsy, this 1960’s vintage nightgown. See more at http://www.etsy.com/listing/61066305/cute-1960s-vintage-double-layered-pink
pink nylon nightie

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You see – good things do happen!

I like to see good things when they come along and thats why I was especially pleased when I saw an open invitation to sign up for Mothfood at www.mothfood.com . Its a complete community for vintage clothing enthusiasts – buyers and sellers. Its a vintage fashion search engine, a directory, a blog, a forum, and a Tweet feed. Not bad for one site in my view – an inclusive community.

What really impresses me most of all though is the fact that Mothfood really is open to all.  You apply to register, they check to see that you really are who you say you are, and then you are in – which is better than being ‘out’ as other vintage seller directories I can think of are either some kind of closed shop or what amounts to little more than a list of someone’s buddies. They miss the point of a seller directory and they miss it by a mile. A directory consisting of a select few is like saying to a buyer “I have chosen who you will buy from and I have chosen who you won’t buy from”.  Would you stand for someone saying that the next time you are shopping for yourself up town? No, thats right – you wouldn’t, presumably. Mothfood offers more and more buyer choice with every dealer that it signs up – and dealers are signing up all the time.

I can only admire Mothfood for having a refreshingly healthy approach to supporting all vintage fashion sellers, whoever they are. That’s why I am happy to nail my colours to the mast in support of someone who supports me and gives choice back to the buyer.  Good luck to Mothfood!

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Just listed – 70’s blue full slip from Germany…

In fine seventies vintage condition, see this cute full slip on Bobadilla Vintage’s Etsy store here: http://www.etsy.com/listing/60601988/pretty-1970s-vintage-blue-full-slip-from

German blue nylon full slip, unterkleid

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Cutie alert! 1950’s crystal pleated ice blue nylon half slip

Just hit Bobadilla Vintage’s Etsy store – they don’t make ’em to this standard any more……see http://www.etsy.com/listing/60402004/delightful-1950s-vintage-ice-blue

1950's sheer nylon half slip

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Cute 70’s dusky pink number…

Typical seventies mid-length waist slip in dusky pink. Just listed. See http://www.etsy.com/listing/60401472/pretty-1970s-vintage-waist-slip-in-dusky

1970's pink nylon half slip

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